VIRTUE OF ACCEPTANCE From The Book PERCEPTION-WHY ME

Posted by Bharat P. Bedi

 ACCEPTANCE

We should have the attitude of acceptance of things & situations. Normally we resist any change in our routine. Life moves by its own rules & regulations. Life is very beautiful. We should know that, many a times, we are pawns in the game of life. When situations are beyond our control we should have the attitude of the least resistance. This way we will push out all the negative emotions welling up within us. This way we will avoid seeing demons where there are none. We will see things in the right perspective.

 Our attitude should be when things go according to our wishes it is good but when it is against our wishes than it is very good because it is according to the wish of the almighty. Whatever comes we should accept it gracefully. We want only good things but to understand the value of good tidings we should also experience things which are not according to our liking. Our thoughts & understanding of things is very limited. We perceive things as per our level of understanding. 

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Situations beyond our control or which arise without our doing anything to bring about that situation should be accepted as the will of God. We should not resist or manipulate to achieve what we feel is good for us. Presently we will feel happy but in the long run what was destined will prove to be right.

We pray, go to temples & spiritual discourses but when our time comes to show faith in God we feel our thinking is better & it should prevail over destined situation. When we say God willing than, we should have faith in God that he will not harm us in any way. 

Resistance leads to negative attitude. When we are in negative mode we see demons where there are none. We approach that thing in such a frame of mind that before we start we have surrendered to our fears. Many a times things which have turned for good are taken for granted that something bad has happened to us just because it is against our perceived notions. 

We feel so comfortable in our present situation that any change is not accepted. We start resisting. Resistance uses up more of our energy & efforts. This energy & effort is wasted as no fruitful result is obtained. In fact they act as roadblock to our progress.

Under performance is the first impact. When we lack interest our efforts are laborious resulting in delay in fulfilling a given work. Without knowing the pros & cons of a particular situation, we fret & fume. We assume change will not be good for us. We loose the battle before it starts.

Acceptance will help in seeing things in right perspective.

When our perception is clear our approach will be positive.

When we have accepted things then we start looking up at avenues available to us.

From the available avenues we can adopt the one which will be beneficial to us in the given context & which we can cope up with from the present resources available to us.

We start thinking with an open mind.

We see opportunities where there were none.

We happily try to grab at opportunities.

When we are happily involved in anything we start enjoying it.

Success is assured when we are enjoying the work in which we are involved.

This enjoyment keeps stress away.

In today’s life the greatest achievement for a healthy life is to be stress free.

Being stress free will bring a healthy glow to our personality because we will be seeing & living life in a better light.

Read the book "PERCEPTION-WHY ME" in this blog to know how minor changes in our thoughts & behaviour can improve our quality of life.

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